Meta: Sex & Such

While I was on the Hetalia Kink Meme, I found a link that I found a very good read. It was written last year during the World Cup, it seems. It's about penetration (and how that's not the be-all-end-all sex act) as well as bottoming =/= submissive (unless the person wants it to be).

Here's the link, and I'd like to say, I'm a bit guilty of some of thought processes here that I've picked up from the culture around me. For example, using the baseball bases metaphor. Like the post says: penetrative sex isn't the be all end all of sex.

That being said, fic-wise, fandom in general could benefit from this. I mean, really, tell me; when was the last time you read a fic with intercrural sex in it? What about a couple that just doesn't do penetrative sex? Hell, a fandom that doesn't have the term top-bottom, pitcher-catcher, seme-uke, ect.? Not very damn often, I'm betting.

All this being said, I'm not saying this to offend anyone. Just wanted to put the thoughts out there for broadening horizons. <3